One Prayer Later

And The Winner IS.....

2011-05-23T23:23:00.002-05:00

After a heated contest, the lucky recipient of the TWO Kenny Chesney tickets (along with Uncle Kracker) is......KAREN CARPENTER from Northport, AL!!! Congratulations, Karen. Thanks for your support. We hope you and a friend enjoy the concert at Tuscaloosa's brand new amphitheater! Take some pics of Kenny and post them for all to see.

Many thanks to the others who chipped in to help bring Selah Evette home. May God bless you this summer for your spirit of generosity and encouragement!

Kenny Chesney Ticket Auction

2011-05-17T14:48:00.014-05:00

Our friends, Alan & Laurie Snyder, have generously donated to us two tickets to the Kenny Chesney concert scheduled for Wednesday, May 25th (7:30p) at the brand new Tuscaloosa Amphitheater. They suggested we use these coveted seats (section 202, row P, seats 26&27) in order to raise money for our adoption. Each day, Selah Evette is a little closer to being home but we still have a ways to go. WE NEED YOUR HELP!

HERE'S HOW:
Chip in just $10 for ONE chance to win the pair of tickets in a random drawing. Chip in $20 and earn TWO chances in the lottery. The more times you chip in, the higher your chances to win! Help also by sharing the story through facebook & twitter. The lottery will officialy close at 9pm on Monday, May 23rd.

Many thanks to you and the Snyders for all the love and support. Please keep us in your prayers. We leave for Ethiopia on May 24th - our anniversary! Can't wait to meet this little girl. Thanks for being a part of our journey.

COURT DATE!

2011-04-18T18:45:00.003-05:00

This morning as I pulled out of our apartment complex, my phone rang and I instantly recognized the area code. It was the long awaited call from our agency letting us know we finally have a COURT DATE! Jenny & I will appear before a judge in Addis Ababa, the capitol city of Ethiopia, on Monday, May 30th nearly two years after our decision to adopt.

Needless to say we are thrilled to finally have travel dates! For the next several weeks we'll be making a thousand arrangements and packing as many supplies as we can stuff into two 50lb bags. (More info later on what we will be collecting to take. We know the orphanages need wipes, formula, plastic mattress covers, and more. We are also taking soccer balls for older children!)

We have some more fundraising to do between now and then. Some good friends of ours are working on a benefit dinner and silent auction. Details of that will soon be available. Also, Jenny is continuing to sell custom cards on Etsy - great for birth announcements, party invites, address changes, etc. Jenny is also selling cookbooks and booking photo sessions. (Yeah, she's a pretty big deal!) Email her with any questions you might have on these fundraising ideas!!

Of course, once we pass court, we'll be able to share pictures of Selah Evette Dixon! Can't wait for that! Please keep our family in your prayers during this exciting and busy time!

Fighting for KIRILL!

2011-03-24T21:53:00.004-05:00

Please help our friends! We are all praying for Greg & Tesney as they try to adopt this little boy, Kirill. The judge in Russia has ruled that he is better off in an institution for the rest of his life rather than in a loving family as he is not "socially adaptable" despite all the experts in the courtroom saying the boy would, in fact, benefit. The ruling has been appealed but there is little hope. Clearly this is a spiritual battle! Please join us in prayer!

See full story:
http://networkedblogs.com/fPjpi

Also, please take the time to forward the sotry to the following major networks. We are hoping they will pick the story up and this will apply pressure to the judge. She just needs some encouragement!

evening@cbsnews.com
nightline@abcnews.com
oreilley@foxnews.com
2020@abc.com
foxreport@foxnews.com
special@foxnews.com
dateline@nbc.com
nightly@nbc.com
today@nbc.com
ombudsman@npr.org

Thanks for your prayers & support!

Finally a Referral!

2011-03-10T00:15:00.003-06:00

It finally came! This past Friday afternoon, Noah & I were in line at the city Water Department (of all places!) and I had to screen a call since I was mid-conversation with the clerk...didn't recognize the area code anyway. About a minute passed and I realized what I had just done. I ignored our adoption agency's big call! Obviously, I called her right back. Our America World agent explained that Jenny was not answering her phone and so she tried again. Jenny picked up and she now had us both on the line!

We knew what was next and couldn't wait for her to get started! She described to us our baby girl, her situation, her current condition and weight and height and more! It was awesome to finally learn something about this mystery baby we have prayed for and talked about for months as if she were already here.

Our agent explained that she was sending an email with info and pics. Fortunately, I was about 10 minutes from home. I told Jenny I would be there in a second so we could open the pictures together. She was already crying and couldn't hardly wait to see her!

Once we got home, she had the mouse hovering over the email and she made sure we were ready! She asked, "well, are you ready to meet your daughter?!" It was surreal in that this was the equivalent of that moment right before birth in the delivery room but this time without all the horrific stuff.

To see her for the first time was amazing! She is precious in every way. We were sent four great photos and look forward to more later. Of course we are not allowed to post any of the details about her or her situation. Once she is legally ours, of course, we can post photos, etc.

Now, we await a court date! Supposedly this will come in 8-16 weeks. We can't wait to go! On this trip we will get to meet her and see her several times. In the meantime, we'll be able to send her care packages with other traveling families (including our friends, the Dreyfus family, who will be able to hold her, take pictures/video and provide a first hand update for us!)

We are truly excited but kind of holding our breath too. Unfortunately, the DAY after the referral, discouraging adoption news from Ethiopia hit the airwaves. Essentially, the organization that recommends international adoptions is drastically reducing the number of cases processed daily. This could mean a VERY long wait time for our second trip when we go to bring our child back home. Please pray for movement here!

Thanks for your support and continued prayers!

WE ARE NEXT!

2011-02-25T23:13:00.004-06:00

At long last...the Dixons are #1 in line for a referral! We found out today that the last family ahead of us received their referral today. It seems like we have been saying "any day now" for months...but this time, it should be ANY DAY NOW! Really. If you are like us, it may be hard getting too excited after such a long wait. It is starting to seem a bit distant. But we are confident that when we see the picture(s) of Selah, our hearts will be more officially and completely involved.

We still need to get some immunizations for the international travel. Also, we are considering taking our oldest son, Noah, on the first trip to Ethiopia with us - so he'll need to get crackin on his passport. Jenny is already bracing herself for the chaos that will ensue upon receiving a referral. There will be so much to do related to packing, preparations and all travel arrangements. And we're gonna need this year's tax return back asap :)

Thanks for your continued prayers and encouragement. Hopefully, we will have some great news soon!

From Out of Nowhere

2010-11-09T08:42:00.009-06:00

No words can describe God's power to amaze - it's deep, endless, skillful, incomprehensible. It's, well....amazing! The Biblical narrative itself is amazing. I'm wrapping up a seminary class on Genesis and have found it all to be amazing. Jesus the Christ, who we read about and follow today led a life on this earth that amazed many. Two thousand years later, He's still amazing millions.

In the feeding of the four thousand recorded in Matthew 15, the scriptures say, "Great crowds came to him, bringing the lame, the blind, the crippled, the mute and many others, and laid them at His feet; and He healed them." These people must have known there was something miraculous about Him. His reputation preceded Him. They had all heard how this man from Galilee (a very ordinary region) was doing extraordinary things.

He was bursting with life and power and energy! Everything He touched received a beautiful piece of that life and power and energy. For this scene in Matthew 15, the backdrop is a dark and cold - a forgotten place. The people there are sick, lonely and dying. Then Jesus passed by and as He touched things, the colors return. Things and people sort of wake up when the Son of God steps into their presence. After Jesus healed the people in this story, the writer explains, "The people were amazed when they saw the mute speaking, the crippled made well, the lame walking and the blind seeing. And they praised the God of Israel."

Here's where I'm going with this. I have been amazed by God once again. We are in the middle of this adoption; this very expensive adoption. Inexplicably, I have never stressed about the money nor where we would find it. Somehow, I knew God would provide us with the means to do the very thing He placed on our hearts. Each time large payments were due to our adoption agency, we have had just enough. Now we are at this unique point in our fundraising - we have done the yard sale, the 5K run, the T Shirts, the coffee, etc. etc. So now what? We still have thousands to raise and there's only so much of that stuff you can do before you just start annoying people.

From out of nowhere, I really believe Jesus has touched my wife and something that was formerly asleep is now awake. She is in the process of uncovering gifts no one knew she possessed. It started with simple cards like party invites, birth announcements and more on an Etsy site. Good photoshop work but nothing crazy. This continues to grow as she is completing 4 to 6 orders per week.

Then she compiled a cookbook with 300 recipes from family & friends. Every page is custom-designed and the cover is pretty nice. Her photoshop skills are growing every day. The cookbooks are selling one notch under "like hot cakes," whatever that is.

Also, we recently purchased a good camera for our upcoming trip to Ethiopia. Now, she has always taken lots of pictures of our kids with a simple point & shoot. Every now and then we would get some shots that were "keepers." But they were our kids so naturally we thought they were good photographs. But then she started experimenting with the new camera and getting really good. Lately, three of her friends have offered their kids as guinea pigs for an official photo shoot. Jenny reluctantly headed into the opportunity lacking confidence but reassured that she would at least make a little money for the adoption.

Long story short, check out these photos!! After only THREE official photo shoots, this is what God is producing in her. How do thirty-some years go by before one finds and opens this sort of hidden gift? I believe it's because Jesus has touched something inside of her and has loosed abilities and creativity placed in her long ago. In this way, Jesus continues to amaze. He continues to bring life and power and energy to those who place their faith in Him. Praise God!

Orphan Sunday - November 7th

2010-11-02T21:24:00.005-05:00

This coming Sunday, November 7th, is National Orphan Sunday. People of God's church all over the world will give pause to the many millions of orphans around the world. Some estimate the total crisis now includes over 150 million children. This figure is growing at a rate of nearly 12 million per year.

This coming Sunday, many church goers here in America will be more bothered over the recent election results than the couple thousand children who will starve to death during our Sunday school and "worship" time. Nonetheless, we will give pause as we lift our pathetic worn out songs of praise. We'll oblige by airing a two or three minute video giving the fatherless a proverbial head nod. And most of us will walk away from that experience feeling better as if we have somehow contributed to the solution.

"Whoa! Slow down there, Duane. You sound angry." I guess I am. While I do not pretend to be the judge over anyone, we all stand before the one true Judge and He can see our actions. He can see our lives. He can see our hearts. He is watching as we indulge ourselves and ignore the needs of others around the world. He knows that His church is forgetting the orphan, the fatherless. And we will be judged accordingly.

Isaiah 1:17 urges the people of God, "Learn to do good. Seek justice. Help the oppressed. DEFEND the cause of orphans. Fight for the rights of widows." Most understand that DEFENSE is hard work. In battle, in sport, and in Christ's community, defense is not for the faint of heart. If as a church we decide to remain weak-minded, fearful, complacent, silent and spineless, the blood of orphans will be on our hands.

Too many of us are unaware of, disconnected from, and completely uninvolved with the orphan crisis. Often we prefer to remain numb to the painful realities around us. So we settle for the status quo and avoid like the plague the rocking of any boats. Fact: God cares about orphans! Therefore, if I am going to be a God follower, by nature I must care about orphans. Is there any possible Biblical argument against this notion? More men and women of God must be willing to stand up and boldly proclaim the simple truths revealed in scriptures concerning this marginalized segment of the global population.

Do something! Today. Start asking questions. Begin praying. Consider emailing my friend at World Vision and sponsor a child on a monthly basis. Families - consider fostering a child or legally adopting a child. Network with others. Talk about the crisis at school and at work. Research the matter and come to your own knowledge and understanding of what's driving the crisis. Will it cost you? Absolutely. Can you possibly make a difference? Absolutely. Does the gospel demand it? Please...please believe that it does!

Status Change!

2010-10-26T13:27:00.004-05:00

Yesterday we learned from our agency, America World, that our status in the waiting process has moved to "on deck!" This is great news and lines up with what we have been anticipating. While there are no guarantees, our referral should come as early as late November. Once we receive the referral, we will be traveling to Ethiopia for our appearance in court 6-8 weeks later.

With a few key events already planned next semester for our campus ministry, we hope this timeline holds. We would love to be traveling in late January or early February.

With the announcement, we also learned what fees will be due at the time of the referral. Once again, we are amazed at how God has provided just enough. Our fundraising is still on track. There will be another wave due once we begin making travel arrangements.

Please consider visiting Jenny's Etsy site for your family's Christmas cards, birthday invites, birth announcements and more! Also, Jenny is offering custom designed cookbooks. These contain over 300 recipes from friends and family. The suggested donation for cookbooks is only $25. To order yours, simply send your request to jennydixon921@gmail.com and further instructions will be emailed to you. And last but not least, Just Love Coffee is would make a great stocking stuffer this year.

2010-10-15T21:17:00.003-05:00

The adopting families support group at the University Church continues to grow! Over 20 families are now networked through this new ministry. If you or someone you know in the Tuscaloosa area is looking for a group like this, please do not hesitate to contact us for details or join our Facebook page. We would love for you to be a part of it all.

Of course, the support group is just one segment of the total orphan care ministry at University. The orphan care team will spur our participation in the worldwide Orphan Sunday, November 7th. The ministry will continue to raise awareness of the global orphan crisis, provide resources and encouragement in legal adoptions, point many to child sponsorship through World Vision, support families through prayer and fundraising, and much much more!

Adoptions from Ethiopia Rise

2010-10-12T16:17:00.002-05:00

"As the overall number of international adoptions by Americans plummets, one country - Ethiopia - is emphatically bucking the trend sending record numbers of children to the U. S. while winning praise for improving orphans' prospects at home."

Read the full article at: http://www.msnbc.msn.com/id/39636986/from/toolbar

King Kong

2010-09-14T09:26:00.005-05:00

I had a really strange dream 2 nights ago. The following details are exactly as I remember them. Interpretations, anyone??

King Kong was close by and I was afraid. I and two other guys were in an abandoned bunker setting bombs & traps for the legendary giant gorilla knowing he would soon arrive. We were in the middle of nowhere. I heard the ground quake just like in the movies. He was moving. I popped my head up from the fox hole and he appeared on the horizon. I couldn't really make out the details of the large silouhette. But I hid.

We waited for him to come to us. The next time I looked out, King Kong was in the form of a GIANT Ethiopian girl. She was the size of Goliath. She had a tattered skirt and shirt. Over the shirt she wore a thin sweater. On her head was a bandana like scarf covering all her hair. The oversized girl was with six or eight other normal size children of various races and colors. They were walking side by side with linked hands. The Ethiopian girl was in the middle.

One of my partners raced out and began conversing with the unusual band of travelers. I was alarmed by his boldness and afraid for him still uncertain about what we were actually dealing with here. We did not yet know what Kong was going to do! I tried to warn him but it was too late. I just observed for a minute. When it was clear to me there was not a threat, I too went out to meet them.

I mean the interpretation seems pretty obvious but I've never really had very meaningful dreams. This one really caught my attention (needless to say!) What do you think about it?

SIDENOTE: If you are not already following Katie's blog (of Amazima Ministries)....you should be. I believe God has set her before us to create in us a much deeper imagination for the Kingdom of God. Her writings are worth quoting as they are indescribable. Her stories are beyond inspiring. They put flesh on what we know to be true in our hearts. She is taking what we acknoweldge with our brains and challenging us to exhibit Christ in our lives.

Take a look at this recent post from Katie.

Order Cook Books Today!

2010-09-13T22:32:00.002-05:00

Jenny has worked long hours to bring you this FANTASTIC CUSTOM COOK BOOK. This unique collection is filled with over 300 recipes including entrees, soups, sides, salads, breads, desserts and more! Please consider ordering one or more copies today in order to support the costly adoption process. We can't do it without you! The suggested donations is only $25. These will make great birthday & Christmas gifts for the cooks in your family.

To order yours, simply send your request to jennydixon921@gmail.com and further instructions will be emailed to you.

If you would be willing, we would also be happy to enlist your help as a sales representative ;) We would appreciate you mentioning this opportunity or even gathering orders from your bible class, small group, workplace, school or club.

Please help us bring Selah Evette Dixon home in 2011!

The Valley of Vision

2010-07-18T20:30:00.006-05:00

LORD, HIGH AND HOLY, MEEK AND LOWLY,
Thou hast brought me to the valley of vision,
where I live in the depths but see Thee in the heights;
hemmed in by mountains of sin I behold Thy glory.

Let me learn by paradox
that the way down in the way up,
that to be low is to be high,
that the broken heart is the healed heart,
that the contrite spirit is the rejoicing spirit,
that the repenting soul is the victorious soul,
that to have nothing is to possess all,
that to bear the cross is to wear a crown,
that to give is to receive, that the valley is the place of vision.

Lord, in the daytime stars can be seen from deepest wells,
and the deeper the wells the brighter Thy stars shine;
let me find Thy light in my darkness,
Thy life in my death,
Thy joy in my sorrow,
Thy grace in my sin,
Thy riches in my poverty,
Thy glory in my valley.

Great song: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=OT8aTjVZHVI

*This poem & song were forwarded to me by a friend - also adopting from Ethiopia.

Ethiopian Orphan Crisis

2010-05-31T08:10:00.002-05:00

AN EXCELLENT ARTICLE FROM: http://takeyourvitaminz.blogspot.com/
"In Ethiopia, the orphan crisis did not receive the media scrutiny it deserved until recent years. High profile adoptions by celebrities including Angelina Jolie, and books, such as “There Is No Me Without You” by Melissa Faye Green, have helped educate many of us concerning the rapid acceleration of new orphanages in Ethiopia. I’m not talking one or two orphanages in a city, but rather five, six and seven orphanages within the span of a couple of years. But the crisis has not stemmed.
According to United Nations Human Development, United Nations International Children’s Emergency and Ethiopia Demographic and Health Survey, today there are an estimated 5 million orphaned and vulnerable children in Ethiopia; 800,000 of them are AIDS orphans. The country’s cities and villages are overwhelmed; Addis Ababa alone has more than 100,000 orphans. The system is overtaxed, and sadly, new orphanages are not the answer.
While most orphanages are built in good faith they are usually built in response to a crisis. In 2009, Americans adopted 2,277 Ethiopian children. It is easy to see that the numbers just do not add up even with the addition of other countries adopting from Ethiopia. We must be proactive in our approach and not just responsive. Orphanages should not be viewed as acceptable long-term solutions for children. Man has made orphanages for children, but God made the family for children. How then do we place as many children in families as possible?
Bethany Christian Services has started bringing together churches in the United States with churches in Ethiopia into long term foster care projects. These are one-on-one relationships; essentially, the U.S. church provides the necessary financing for foster care and the Ethiopian partner inspires its members to help find families and develop loving, local communities. The two churches coordinate their efforts in a symbiotic fashion, working not only on adoption issues, but also any other missions projects that they wish.
These figures I mentioned previously show that the future of Ethiopia’s children is heading toward a crisis of epic proportion if measurable and immediate action is not taken. The existing structure of orphanages can only do so much and a large number of orphaned children still remain helpless. They are lost, confused, hungry and crying out for a family that will provide them with the basic human need: unconditional love.
We must continue to create other ways of putting children in families. We must continue to direct our efforts in and through the Church. It is our responsibility as believers - it is our honor and privilege to be able to serve the least of these.

Via God’s Holy and Inspired Word:

James 1:27 Religion that is pure and undefiled before God, the Father, is this: to visit orphans and widows in their affliction, and to keep oneself unstained from the world.'"

Dossier Complete!

2010-05-29T14:28:00.002-05:00

Don't let me down, FedEx! Yesterday, our dossier was sent to AWAA in McLean, Virginia. (It would fall on a holiday weekend so they'll not get it until Tuesday.) There are some more hoops to jump through with the U.S. government next week. Supposedly, this takes 1-3 weeks and then our agency sends the dossier to Ethiopia and the official wait begins! Glad to be at this point.

Just an Update

2010-05-19T09:11:00.003-05:00

I hold in my hand our first stab at a completed dossier! It took us a YEAR to get to this point but we are here. I faxed everything to America World just yesterday. Provided there are no major mistakes in our paper work, we may be looking for county/state certifications this week! Once everything is certified, we will overnight our dossier to Virginia. After about a week there (& more authentication), it will be sent to Ethiopia. Wheww.

Of course, the largest check to date will be sent with the dossier to Virginia. Praise God that we are ahead on fundraising and have more than enough saved to make the payment this time! We still need to save/raise the last third of our funds. Fortunately, we have time as the next payment is several months away.

Please keep us in your prayers!

Another Family Living Boldly

2010-03-04T10:11:00.008-06:00

Check out this story - well worth the 9 minutes! This is precisely what our friends Adam & Amy Pierce are doing in Northport, Alabama. What an amazing testimony!

Living on the Front Porch
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=rRGac7eHKgc

Retreat or Risk It All?

2010-03-01T08:15:00.002-06:00

Get Ready! Another amazing challenge from David Platt, pastor of The Church at Brook Hills in Birmingham. Would love to hear your comments after watching!

David Platt: SBC Pastors Conference 2009 from Todd Thomas on Vimeo.

Brown House

2010-02-28T08:55:00.002-06:00

Check out the following video made for the Brown House ministry here in Northport. We featured this ministry at this year's Gulfcoast Getaway. The response was overwhelming!

Gulf Coast Getaway Brown House Series from Capture Studios on Vimeo.

An Article from Telegraph.co.uk

2010-02-19T08:37:00.004-06:00

Mr Rabeder, 47, a businessman from Telfs is in the process of selling his luxury 3,455 sq ft villa with lake, sauna and spectacular mountain views over the Alps, valued at £1.4 million.

Also for sale is his beautiful old stone farmhouse in Provence with its 17 hectares overlooking the arrière-pays, on the market for £613,000. Already gone is his collection of six gliders valued at £350,000, and a luxury Audi A8, worth around £44,000.

Mr Rabeder has also sold the interior furnishings and accessories business – from vases to artificial flowers – that made his fortune.

"My idea is to have nothing left. Absolutely nothing," he told The Daily Telegraph. "Money is counterproductive – it prevents happiness to come."

Instead, he will move out of his luxury Alpine retreat into a small wooden hut in the mountains or a simple bedsit in Innsbruck.

His entire proceeds are going to charities he set up in Central and Latin America, but he will not even take a salary from these.

"For a long time I believed that more wealth and luxury automatically meant more happiness," he said. "I come from a very poor family where the rules were to work more to achieve more material things, and I applied this for many years," said Mr Rabeder.

But over time, he had another, conflicting feeling.

"More and more I heard the words: 'Stop what you are doing now – all this luxury and consumerism – and start your real life'," he said. "I had the feeling I was working as a slave for things that I did not wish for or need.

I have the feeling that there are lot of people doing the same thing."

However, for many years he said he was simply not "brave" enough to give up all the trappings of his comfortable existence.

The tipping point came while he was on a three-week holiday with his wife to islands of Hawaii.

"It was the biggest shock in my life, when I realised how horrible, soulless and without feeling the five star lifestyle is," he said. "In those three weeks, we spent all the money you could possibly spend. But in all that time, we had the feeling we hadn't met a single real person – that we were all just actors. The staff played the role of being friendly and the guests played the role of being important and nobody was real."

He had similar feelings of guilt while on gliding trips in South America and Africa. "I increasingly got the sensation that there is a connection between our wealth and their poverty," he said.

Suddenly, he realised that "if I don't do it now I won't do it for the rest of my life".

Mr Rabeder decided to raffle his Alpine home, selling 21,999 lottery tickets priced at just £87 each. The Provence house in the village of Cruis is on sale at the local estate agent.

All the money will go into his microcredit charity, which offers small loans to Latin America and builds development aid strategies to self-employed people in El Salvador, Honduras, Bolivia, Peru, Argentina and Chile.

Since selling his belongings, Mr Rabeder said he felt "free, the opposite of heavy".

But he said he did not judge those who chose to keep their wealth. "I do not have the right to give any other person advice. I was just listening to the voice of my heart and soul."

Spirit of Adoption

2010-01-29T14:44:00.004-06:00

The Spirit of Adoption is sweeping through the University Church in Tuscaloosa, AL. Praise God for the work He is doing on many hearts in this church family. FOURTEEN families are now on the adoption journey! 5 of those are domestic. The other 9 are international adoptions. The families have organized a support group meeting regularly. And watch out - we have our own logo (above) and Facebook group!! The church leadership is praying about what is happening and working to think of all the ways the congregation can love and support the adopting families as well. A general fund for donations has been set up and plans for an official orphan care ministry team are also in the works. In terms of long range plans, adopting families hope to begin a perpetuating fund to which we contribute some/all of our federal tax credits (The U.S. government does issue a substantial tax credit for adopting families - very helpful.) These funds could then be loaned at no interest to other families who decide to later join this area of God's mission. These truly are exciting and encouraging times at UCC. We pray that God's Spirit continues to fan these flames so that more and more families make the decision to adopt one or more of the many orphaned children of this world!

J. I. Packer (Influential Canadian theologian) in his book, Knowing God writes, "Our understanding of Christianity cannot be better than our grasp of adoption."

Thanksgiving Surprise

2009-11-29T23:42:00.003-06:00

Thanksgiving was an encouragement to us in new ways this year! Jenny and I were blown away when we figured out the entire Forrest family had secretly agreed to wear shirts they had purchased through our GO SEEK LOVE fundraising site. When the first family arrived I thought, 'oh what a nice gesture!' But, it was pretty cool when one right after the other filed in sporting short sleeves, long sleeves, hoodies, etc. Thank you all so much!

If you or someone you know might like to have your own, we would really appreciate your support ;) They would make great Christmas presents!

AFRICA

2009-11-19T19:08:00.001-06:00

The Orphan Crisis

2009-11-19T18:51:00.004-06:00

an excerpt from my recent research project concerning the orphan crisis...

Today, a world-wide orphan crisis of unprecedented proportions is spiraling out of control. Few regions around the globe are exempt from this overwhelming plight affecting millions of children of all ages. Most research agrees there may now be as many as 145 million children around the world who would be considered orphans by standard definitions. On one hand, researchers carefully present many qualifications and offer various definitions for the digestion of the latest and very discouraging statistics. Nonetheless, the scope of the orphan predicament has undeniably reached catastrophic dimensions. The concerned people of the world, especially the Church of Jesus Christ, must move more rapidly toward innovative global solutions for this major, expanding dilemma.

Many nations around the world, including the United States, have growing orphan numbers and stumbling orphan care systems. However, three regions of the world in particular draw a great deal of attention – Asia, India and sub-Saharan Africa. Researchers indicate there are over 67 million orphans currently living in Asia. Data collected in sub-Saharan Africa reveals there are over 43 million orphans now living in this region. Over 25 million children live as orphans in the relatively small land mass of India. While statistics vary depending on the sources themselves, the number of orphans in these three areas of our world alone is simply staggering.

The United States also faces a growing orphan care problem. In the U. S there are currently 500,000 orphans who are in the foster care system. It is reported that over 130,000 of these children are available and waiting to be adopted. In other words, these children have been separated from their family in some way and/or parental rights have been terminated. While an estimated 51,000 children are adopted out of the foster care system each year, another 79,000 children remain in the orphan care system at the end of each year.

Just Love Coffee

2009-10-30T09:19:00.003-05:00

"Roasting Fair Trade Specialty coffees, Just Love Coffee Roasters uses proceeds to help an Ethiopian orphanage and families adopting not just from Ethiopia, but from anywhere in the world."

We stumbled into this family, the Webbs, who have adopted from Ethiopia and now help other adopting families to raise funds through the sale of specialty coffees. Check out their site with the link above and our storefront with the link below:

www.justlovecoffee.com/teamdixon

We would love to have your help. Please consider forwarding to your friends, family, and random coffee drinkers. It's an easy way to become involved in orphan care! Thank you.

FUNDRAISING OPPORTUNITY

2009-10-14T23:30:00.005-05:00

Daniel & Sarah Dubois, friends from Jenny's home church, are also adopting from Ethiopia. You can check out their story at http://www.goseeklove.com/ They are further into the process than we are and have completed their fund raising.

We were BLOWN AWAY when they called to offer us the proceeds from their Tshirt fundraiser already in progress! Over time, their site has cultivated a following and they are willing to donate the profits over the next several months to the Dixon adoption fund. We are so grateful to the Dubois fam!

SO, we are sending all of our friends to their site to check out the merchandise (hoodies, long sleeves, 3/4 sleeves, T's, onesies, and stationery). They have our story and pictures posted as well. Please consider purchasing something and/or passing the links on to your email list.

THANK YOU SO MUCH FOR YOUR HELP!

the dixons

Raising Funds through ETSY

2009-10-12T22:36:00.007-05:00

Over the last several months, Jenny has developed a great way of fundraising for our adoption. She has set up an online shoppe named Easy as 127 (after James 1:27) to sell custom photo cards. These are great-looking and affordable cards for many occasions. Customers send personal photos to her and she supplies a jpeg that is print-ready. All the proceeds go to our adoption fund!

PLEASE consider purchasing your family's Christmas cards, birthday and other party invites, and more through her site.

ALSO, please help us network with more people by sending the link for her shoppe to people on your email list. With your recommendation, we could reach many people and raise much needed funds!

THANK YOU for your help and support in the coming months!

To visit, go to: www.jennydixon.etsy.com

Update

2009-09-28T13:25:00.002-05:00

Jenny and I are working feverishly to complete our home study process. We are in the home stretch! We think. It has gone pretty well and the last meeting with our social worker has been scheduled for next week. She will actually visit our home this time to make her final decision on whether or not we are fit to adopt. I've still gotta get a fire extinguisher!

Once the home study is written, it will have to be approved at various levels. Then, the home study, along with another 237 notarized and certified documents will be sent to various agencies, government entities including congress on the state and federal levels (both house & senate), a host of federal judges, the United Nations, the train station, the laundry mat, the immigration office, the local rotary club, and then back to president Obama for final approval. THEN, it will be sent to Ethiopia!

Seriously, we are hoping our official dossier (fancy word for packet of info) will be complete sometime in November and then sent out of country. As far as fundraising goes, we are about 1/5 the way there. As many of you know, our house is for sale. Slow market...yeah, we know. We really want to pay less for a house anyway. So through additional fundraising and the sale of our house, we believe we'll raise the funds necessary...eventually. Please be praying that God will send us a buyer soon!

project JI:27

2009-07-18T21:53:00.004-05:00

In an effort to raise funds for our adoption, we have created a project we are calling J1:27. We are partnering with our friends, Tim & Anna Dreyfus. It's a great idea we found recently on the internet. Teams we recruit will work to find sponsors for every hour of work they contribute to the restoration of a widow's house. Both the widow and the orphan are blessed...taken from James 1:27.

Through a local service organization, we have befriended 2 widows - Mattie Boyd & Cora Bentley. Their houses have a combined age of over 100 years old and are in need of repair. Our 2 teams will work all day on Aug 8th to restore their homes. All the funds pledged to workers will go toward our adoptions!

Here's how you might could help:

BE A WORKER. If you live here in Tuscaloosa, we could use you on the team. Between now and August 8th, send out letters to friends and family requesting sponsorships for ever hour of work you compete. We have a form letter and pledge cards already printed for you! How easy is that??

SPONSOR A WORKER for every hour they agree to work. We will be working as a part of the teams of course. You might agree to sponsor us or any other team memeber for for the hours of work completed.

DONATE materials, tools, or equipment. If you have tools or equipment you would like to offer for the project, we will need a variety of things. If you have contacts who may be able to arrange materials at discounted prices, this would be most helpful! Cash donations for material purchases will also be most helpful.

ORGANIZE MEALS and refreshments. Both teams will consist of 15-20 workers. They will all need breakfast, lunch, dinner, snacks, and drinks. We will need friends to attend to these needs throughout the day.

BECOME A PRAYER WARRIOR & encourager. We want this to be a day that blesses people! We know we will be blessed as workers. We pray the widows will be blessed tremendously. We pray neighbors and passer-bys will be blessed as well. It will be most encouraging to know many out there are praying for the event!

2 nations
2 orphans
2 families
2 widows
2 houses...

1 community of faith

"Pure and genuine religion in the sight of God the Father means caring for orphans and widows in their distress..." JI:27

Fellow Travelers

2009-05-25T21:08:00.006-05:00

We are thrilled to find out Tim & Anna Dreyfus will be making the same journey. They have decided to adopt a baby girl from Ethiopia. We have become close friends with their whole crew after moving to Tuscaloosa. It's been amazing to see how God has led them to their decision. We will enjoy the road together and look forward to having the support and encouragement of these good friends as our new daughters grow up together!

Check out their video post!
http://www.annadreyfus.blogspot.com/

The Red Sea

2009-05-20T21:56:00.006-05:00

I may never forget one adoption story in particular from the America World seminar. A gentlemen shared vivid memories of his trip to Ethiopia. He and his wife were adopting two, a young boy and a baby girl.

Upon arrival at the orphanage, the gates swung open welcoming them into the place. Immediately, many kids surrounded them all very happy to greet them. They new it was going to be an emotional day!

This family had previously received photographs of their 2 children. The time had come to meet the children and take them to a new home! For this particular orphanage, it was customary (perhaps part of the ceremony?) to allow the adopting parents to find the child amidst the others - with no assistance. The mother looked very briefly and went almost instinctively to her new baby girl sweetly resting in one of the cribs.

It was the father's turn. (He recounted his nervousness in this moment.) He began to scan the crowd of young boys crammed into the large room. What happened next he compared to the parting of the Red Sea. The boys all parted down the center of the room leading all eyes to a young boy standing alone in the back. The boy ran down the aisle and jumped into his father's arms!

Jenny and I grow more excited about this journey each day. As we share the news with others, we are finding that many people have dreamed about adopting one day! We hope and pray our testimony will one day inspire and encourage many others to take the same plunge.

Today, we were officially accepted into America World's Ethiopia program. It's small but a step in the right direction. We will soon begin assembling our dossier (the main legal paper work packet) AND working with a home study agency. Also, Jenny & I will begin a required online course for international adoption. Thank you for your continued prayers!

Choosing A Country

2009-05-06T09:07:00.018-05:00

As we prayed through the month of April, we didn't mind including a little, 'Oh and God, if you don't mind, give us some ideas on where to go?!' We had no idea. Earlier in Jenny's journey, she had dreamed a little bit of China and Guatemala. But Guatemala has been closed off due to corruption and China has recently become unusually difficult.

Among other countries, we considered Columbia, India, and Africa. Early on in the process, we quickly started to rule out children from Africa. We weren't sure this was best considering all the dynamics at play in Tuscaloosa, Alabama. However, it seemed at every turn God showed us He has a different way of looking at it!

When it comes to discernment, I guess it's easier for me to consider a chunk of time rather than looking for a single 'sign.' As I look back over the recent months, here is some of the overwhelming leading God has provided for us.

a) Over the last year, we have had Africa on the brain and in our hearts. Our great friends Carson & Holly moved to Tanzania in March for a 10 year project. We had been along side of them as they prepared for their move for over a year. Their team was featured at this year's Gulfcoast Getaway in Panama City, Florida.

b) The friend I mentioned in One Prayer Later...they selected Africa (Ethiopia). I am able to put great trust in their research and choice.

c) Jenny has befriended a mom through our home school association who adopted from Africa (Uganda). Her little girl, Savannah, is now 6 years old.

d) In March (before I had a clue I'd be praying about adoption in April), I committed to be a table host for a benefit dinner on UA's campus. I knew next to nothing about the cause. I was just trying to support one of our students in her effort. It ended up being a dinner by Apwonjo -a student group working to raise aid & awareness for...Africa.

e) We quickly learned some of the greatest needs exist in orphanages across Africa. Ethiopia alone is home to over 4 million orphans.

f) In a practical sense, we found Ethiopia to be about the quickest process. It is less costly than most all other countries. And, the required visit is only 7 days or so.

g) Just as we began to lean toward Ethiopia, the America World seminar we attended in Nashville featured one testimony from a family who adopted 2 from...Ethiopia! Hearing their story was so moving. We met their beautiful children Bruik and Ava!

Praise God! He is such a diligent communicator. We are amazed as He continues to pave the way for us in this journey.

Selecting an Agency

2009-05-04T23:51:00.008-05:00

Througout the prayer process, we were praying for clarity on which adoption agency would be the one. Jenny called and requested info from several. I remember she was out of town when 3 packages arrived at our house. One package stood out to me in a few ways.

a) The thing was particularly well done - quality materials, attractive folder, info dvd, ribbon, etc. I'm sorry, but I'm big on presentation!

b) This was the same agency used by musical aritst, Steven Curtis Chapman. He has adopted 3 times. He's got like 47 Dove Awards. AND he's all about love.

c) Perhaps most gripping, the cover letter from the president ended with this paragraph:

"Finally, I ask a simple favor of you. Upon finishing this letter, please close the information packet and voice a prayer for these children. By doing so, you have already helped those who lack the love of a mother and father."

As I look at it now, it doesn't read all that special. But again, I found myself sobbing as God drew me deeper into this whole thing! After some more looking, we found out this agency was hosting an upcoming event in Nashville, TN.

This past weekend, we traveled to Nashville for a niece's birthday party and while we were in the area, we were able to slip out and attend the seminar. It made the trip for me! Hearing personal testimonies was more of what we needed. We saw several children from other countries who had been adopted in recent years.

Long story short, I started filling out the appliation forms late that night once we got back to Tuscaloosa! The name of the agency is America World Adoption.

One Prayer Later...

2009-05-03T23:29:00.006-05:00

Our close friends know the second child did not come easy for us. It was a two year ordeal including fertility clinics, a tearful wife, a concerned husband, and countless prayers. They told us it would be virtually impossible without [costly] fertility treatments. We (especially Jenny) didn't buy it - not one bit!Well, Micah's 4 this September! And I think we're starting to understand a purpose behind the ordeal. Somewhere in there, God begin to plant seeds into Jenny's amazing heart. Crazy seeds. He cultivated in her an unrelenting desire to adopt. She'll admit, in the beginning, her desires were mixed with some self-serving purposes. Nonetheless, He was working on her, even then, through the broken circumstances.

Lately, we had both been feeling pretty good about stopping at 3. On those days when temper tantrums and fights over space and stuff rang out...we felt really good about stopping at 3!

But still, those crazy seeds weren't dying! Jenny would sweetly mention adoption from time to time. I just wasn't feeling it. Our garden was plenty big and farming here is plenty tough. The reluctance had nothing to do with adoption. The reluctance was about the number 4!

I was in Nashville in late March visiting with a friend who is in the midst of an international adoption. I related Jenny's feelings to him and expressed my reluctance. A couple of days of later, he and his wife sent an email pledging $500 to 'the Dixon adoption' fund. We were floored by the timing and the kindness and the spirit of it all!

We sighed a timid 'ok, God.' Jenny & I agreed to pray together every night for the month of April. I thought this casual and reluctant exploration couldn't turn out that bad. It was like sticking your toe in the pool to test its temperature...worse case scenario, you recoil in minor discomfort but there's no real commitment because you're still upright on the side of the pool, right?

So it's the first night of praying together! Went fine. 'God if you need us to walk through this door, just make that obvious. We love you...etc., etc.' I'm driving to work the next morning still with my proverbial toe in the water and in complete control of my destiny. I can remember where I was on Highway 69 when God took His forearm and planted it squarely on my back and SHOVED me in, head first into the pool!

It was amazing and funny and powerful and humbling all in one motion! I sheepishly confessed to Jenny that night my reluctance had been miraculously disassembled. She couldn't believe it. Over the next few weeks, I found my conviction growing exponentially! My conversations with friends and fellow employees were all becoming an appeal for them to adopt a child too. I was out of control! At one point I even suggested Noah & his buddies should all go in together and adopt a kid from China or something. Ok, I've gotta bridle this passion - I understand.

One prayer later...we found ourselves filled with awe, passion, and insatiable hunger. I know for sure it doesn't always happen that way. But it did this time! We finished praying through the month. Our convictions have grown inexplicably and wildly. God is truly amazing!